The signs are there. They have always been there. You know if this “thing” is just physical. You know if it’s “shallow.” You know if it’s just a superficial attraction. But what often holds us here in this kind of situation is an extremely strong desire for “some” type of attention or “any” kind of affection. We’re prolonging the inevitable and delaying the real blessings Jehovah has for us. I know it gets difficult in the flesh. I know the desire for companionship can be overwhelmingly strong at times. I know what it’s like to experience a four year drought just to have the “wrong man” to be the first candidate after the drought. It’s tempting. To just have someone, anyone but don’t. It isn’t a good feeling when the physical attraction wears off and the idea of you just isn’t that interesting any more, and the phone calls die down and the texts subside. And you find out that your heart means nothing to a man who was never created for you in the first place. Bow out gracefully NOW and trust God’s timing.
We think that because we don’t have any money, that we don’t have to know why we don’t have any. Jehovah says to be faithful over a few things. Even if we lived from check to check during the entire 2017 year, we should know where our money went. We’re just spending and not even managing or paying attention to what we’re doing with it. That is bad stewardship. Even if we don’t have but $1.00 left after paying our bills, we need an excel spreadsheet or a good old composition notebook on which we record every dime we spend. God says pay attention to everything He has given us in this season. Be better stewards over the little now. It won’t take long. You won’t have to wait long. You will begin to multiply sooner than you can imagine by taking this “simple” FAITH step.
In a clean fresh notepad, write January 2018 at the top. Write the amount of your check at the top. Then list every monthly bill (including tithes/offering and savings) and the amounts. What do you have left? If you have $500.00 left after every bill is paid, then allocate the $500 ($350 for groceries; $100 gas; $50 spending). Put those amounts in three envelopes. On those envelopes, write dates and keep receipts for each grocery trip, gas trip, and entertainment/eating out trip.
To begin to pay off debt, write each debt on the back of your January 2018 page. Start with the SMALLEST debt to the largest. So if you have four debtors do this:
1. Macy’s 750.00;
2. Dillard’s 1200.
3. Lowe’s 4,207.
4. Visa 11,200.
After your bills, gas, groceries and you have $50.00 left. You can either have spending money or you can take $30 of that and put it on your lowest debt (Macy’s). So you pay Macy’s out of your monthly bills and then you add an extra $30 each month (and anything extra that you get like overtime, gifts, etc.) until you pay off Macy’s. Then, you take the monthly amount you paid on Macy’s plus the $30 and all extra money and start working on Dillard’s. You cannot, however, charge anything else or you’re shooting yourself in the foot. Shout, “Multiply! Increase! I’m Debt Free in the name of Yeshua!”
This is just one simple way to get started! In our Taking It All Back group, we will spend about five months on finances (wealth) alone! We are working on living according to kingdom principles, including our finances! You can share your methods in the comment box below!
Queens! I’m launching a new program called Taking It All Back: Unlocking the 12 Dimensions for Taking Back Your Worth and Your Wealth beginning January 1, 2018! This is an invitation for you to join our paid membership VIP Inner Circle via Facebook! This secret group is for women who are truly committed to an authentic and sustainable transformation in their lives. It’s for women who are fed up with “life as usual” and who refuse to live a life of low self-worth and lack any longer! It’s for women who are tired of “quick fixes” and are ready to not only be proactive in their transformative process but also willing to make an investment.
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Email me or ask questions in the comment box! Love you queens and I’m so excited about what God is doing in this season! There has been a change in seasons!
Don’t fall into the trap of the enemy in this season. You are not depressed. You are not going into more debt – you’re coming out. You may be alone but you are not lonely. You have transitioned through a change in seasons and come forth victorious. You have overcome every attack the enemy forged against you in 2017. You are more than a conqueror. You don’t have to overspend to overcompensate for you you think you are not. You are whole. You are amazing. You are royalty – kings and queens. You made it through the most trying times of your life because Jehovah is your everything. There is nothing lost in the kingdom because Jehovah restores and shows mercy on whom He wants to show mercy. You will not take any residue of rejection, depression, or oppression into the new season of 2018. You realize you are but a mist and that your life is not your own. Therefore, you are determined to live each day that you do have in the dominion, authority, and power that Jehovah gave to you. Your lot is not lack but your portion is increase and multiplication. Shut down every lying devil that contradicts what God says about you in His Word. We don’t die, we multiply! And brown people, awaken and watch God vindicate us in this season.
Queens, it is the season for us to examine our fruit. Do we produce royal fruit? Can God trust us to wear the crown? Do we carry ourselves like a queen? Do we engage in royal conversations? Are we willing to stop participating in sexual sin? Masturbation? Pornography? Adultery? Fornication? Lust? Do we have self-control? Is there even a hit of greed? Welfare or income tax fraud? Are our private conversations with family or girlfriends pure? Do we engage in nasty conversations? Make nasty jokes? I thank God that we can repent and thank Jehovah for His grace! We can surrender our struggles to Him and let Him come in and begin to transform our lives now. Let’s begin to express thankfulness to Jehovah out of our mouths. Let’s bless and not curse out of our mouths. Let’s build up and not tear down. Let’s exemplify queen behavior. We have to be willing to die to our flesh and our own fleshly desires. God has greater works He wants to do in, for and through us but we have to let Him get our hearts right. You are a queen. You’re worthy of the crown. You’re worth far more than rubies. You just have to carry yourself like you know this.
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Your time has come. God is about to make you forget all the labor, grief, and birth pains you’ve had to go through. When you see the manifestation of the blessings; when you see the possibilities in what He is birthing in you; when your visions and dreams are manifested in this season; when you are no longer the tail but the head, no longer beneath but above; when you pull down every spiritual blessing that He has for you in heavenly places, you won’t remember the past pain and the present and future warfare will be ineffective and impenetrable to you. Your time has come – but only if you believe it has. Only if you move in the Kairos of God. Only if you relinquish the past and get up off your bed of affliction. Only if you shed the mourning clothes of last season and walk in your kingdom purpose. Some of us are sitting by the window waiting for Yeshua to return. He says get up and work and move toward your destiny. Your time has come now!
John 16:21-22 (NIV) 21 A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. 22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.