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“Your Mind, Stayed on Him” by Dr. Jené Walker

Isaiah 26:3 (AMPC) ” You will guard him and keep him in perfect and constant peace whose mind [both its inclination and its character] is stayed on You, because he commits himself to You, leans on You, and hopes confidently in You.”
 
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How will you make sure your mind is stayed on God?
 
God has given us the strategies. Queens, it is really up to us to receive them and use them. God says in order for us to shift our mindset (Yes! We do have the power to shift our minds.), we have to keep our minds stayed on Him. If we do this, God will guard us and keep us in perfect and continual peace. But the moment our minds come down! Restlessness. Confusion. Loneliness. Inadequacy. Doubt. Weariness. Stop. Follow God’s instructions. Become “doers” of the Word now.
 
1. Commit yourself to Him – Your ways, mind, body, and your soul belong to him. “God I give my life to you. I give my marriage to you. I give my child(ren) to you. I give my money to you. I commit everything that I am and that I have to you.”
 
2. Lean on Him – “When I’m in ‘impossible with woman’ situations; when I can’t do anything to change my situation, I will lean on You. I lean on You at all times; but when I’m in a bad way, I will not panic. God, it’s like this – I just want to be in Your will. I can’t fix this. I can’t change this. I can lean on You and not my own understanding. All my ways I commit to You and You shall direct my path.”
 
3. Hope Confidently in Him – “God I wait patiently on You because I know You’ve heard my cry. I know that anything I ask in Your will, you have already changed my present circumstances and possessions.” Your hope in Him doesn’t waver. Your hope in Him doesn’t fluctuate. Your hope in Him is confident. You know He will come through for you.
 
It doesn’t make any sense to invest your time in reading the scriptures if the Word will fall on harden hearts. Let the mind that was in Yeshua be in you. Let this Word transform your mind. If you’re only into scripture quoting and toting but not Word changing and transforming, then you won’t be equipped to take it all back. Knock down every stronghold now. Fight with everything in you now. Settle your mind now.
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Join our Taking It All Back VIP Inner Circle! The Taking It All Back! Inner Circle is a tremendous resource but only if you’ve made up your mind to go all in. For the best results in this program, you have to really be fed up with where you are currently and extremely serious about where you want to go. So many people want change, but they just aren’t willing to put in the work! If you’re ready to take back everything that you lost, everything that has been locked up, and everything that has been stolen from you, click here: Taking It All Back! VIP Inner Circle 
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Click Here for a snippet of our lesson on “Swinging Moods and Awful Attitudes!”
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He Who Finds a Wife, Will He Find a Good Thing and Receive Favor? by Dr.Jené Walker

Proverbs 18:22 NIV “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”

Reflection Question: Are you already a wife in your spirit now?

What are the wifely qualities and characteristics we currently possess? Are we saved women of God? Do we have a quiet spirit (1 Peter 3)? Are we modest in our dress and hairstyles (1 Peter 3)? Do we know how to be “subject” to God because if we don’t how can we be subject to your own husband (1 Peter 3, Ephesians 5)? Is God the head of our lives (Ephesians 5)? Are we respectful toward others, especially men (Ephesians 5)? Do we now delight ourselves in the Lord (Psalm 37:4) because when we’re married we are supposed to delight ourselves in our husbands, “notices him and prefer him and treat him with loving concern, treasuring him, honoring him, and holding him dear” (Ephesians 5 AMP)?

According to King Lemuel’s mother and modern day mothers too, an excellent wife is hard to find. It is difficult to find a wife in whom a husband’s heart can trust. Are we trustworthy, giving, kind, industrious, strong, a good steward of our money, wise, faithful, a good steward of our time (or idle), noble, and honorable (Proverbs 31)?

Some of us think that God needs help in our man’s search for us (I’ve been guilty before), but God doesn’t. God will equip man with all He needs to find us. God will give man a glimpse, through supernatural binoculars, of the favor man can have when he discovers us. God will show man how good it will be when he finds us. God will even set up and supernaturally arrange the discovery place. We don’t have to try to be in a certain location so our husbands can find us. We don’t have to speed up God’s discovery process. All we have to do is be in a wifely state of being when God allows him to find us. All we have to do is be married to God until our husbands come.

Are you already a wife in your spirit? Are you ready to be found by the one who will seek? God has allowed me to see first hand and, even more so lately, second hand  that marriage is not a joke. The enemy forges more attacks against the entity of marriage and the family that singles can’t even begin to fathom. If you’re not ready for war, stay single. If you’re not equally yoked with that man with THE MAN as the one who can wash you in the word (that means he is in just as deep with God or more than you), he isn’t the one. If you are vindictive and go “tic for tac,” stay single. If you know that God called you to the ministry of marriage, let God work on you now. Be faithful to God. If this is a difficult task, imagine how difficult it will be to be faithful in allowing the Holy Spirit to help you possess these wifely qualities.  Jené Elaine Walker