The signs are there. They have always been there. You know if this “thing” is just physical. You know if it’s “shallow.” You know if it’s just a superficial attraction. But what often holds us here in this kind of situation is an extremely strong desire for “some” type of attention or “any” kind of affection. We’re prolonging the inevitable and delaying the real blessings Jehovah has for us. I know it gets difficult in the flesh. I know the desire for companionship can be overwhelmingly strong at times. I know what it’s like to experience a four year drought just to have the “wrong man” to be the first candidate after the drought. It’s tempting. To just have someone, anyone but don’t. It isn’t a good feeling when the physical attraction wears off and the idea of you just isn’t that interesting any more, and the phone calls die down and the texts subside. And you find out that your heart means nothing to a man who was never created for you in the first place. Bow out gracefully NOW and trust God’s timing.
Keep your head up queen! The hell I’ve been through is enough the make a queen lie down and give up. But God. He says get up queen! Regardless of who left you for someone else; regardless of your bank account or credit score or the lack thereof; regardless of any kind of sexually transmitted disease or illness; regardless of your living arrangements; regardless of the friends who abandoned you; regardless of career or business or ministry obstacles; regardless of any self-perceived or inflicted inadequacies- get up! If you would only trust God and move in His direction, He has something amazing for you.
I decree and declare that you are healed from your afflictions. Every demon assigned to oppress you and hold you down must flee in the name of Yeshua. Regardless of who or what you loss, God has already restored it in the name is Yeshua. Throw your head back and look toward the hills from whence comes your help. He is waiting for you!
I pray that God teaches us how to truly be help mates. Yes. He created us to be that way. But we live in the world’s system and Satan has spent our whole lives using his imps to brainwash us in his methods. I decree and declare now that we will operate as wives according to God’s original plan. We know how to hold our husband down. We know how to lift him up. We know how to help him articulate his vision. We know how to give depth to his plans. We know how to organize and execute his goals. We know how to ask questions that will make him think things through without cussing, fussing, or nagging. We know how to create a sanctuary at home for him after he’s been through hell all day. We know how to lay hands on his head and pray over him until he believes he can do anything. We know how to make him feel like a king. We know how to propel him to another level. We know how to make his heart smile. How? Because Holy Spirit leads, guides, and teaches us what to say and do and we listen.
Because I’ve gone through and have done some ugly things in my past, Jehovah has kept me humble. My past keeps me non judgmental. My past keeps me rooted in the fact that all I am or could ever be is because of grace. Now I should easily be able to extend grace to my sisters right? Who am I to be so critical about where she is in her life right now when I was just there three years ago? Sisters need a sister with a big heart. Love. Transparency. Correction in love. The truth from the Word of God and not our opinions. Can we be honest with ourselves and think about what we’ve been through and what we’ve done for a moment? Yes, I’m a queen. Yes, I’m regal. But I’m also real and I love God and His people. “Life for me ain’t no crystal stair.” And I have a testimony to share. Don’t you?
I don’t want to judge you sister. I just want to love you. Correction by the Word and Holy Spirit is good for us. It’s what brought me out of my mess. I’m every woman. I bet you can’t shock me. No matter what, you are a queen! Shop our new queen collection at https://goo.gl/1oA2Wn!
He may not have the grace. You have a calling and an assignment on your life. Period. You were created for a purpose. Those relationships haven’t worked out because the man Jehovah has for you has to have the “grace” to be able to love you and lead you. He won’t bless you with someone who isn’t created to complement your calling to fulfill in the earth. There is a man who is favored and graced to carry you as Jehovah carries him. The heavier your calling, the heavier his grace will be. Be discerning. You know what God has called you to do. You know what God told you you need in your husband. Stop trying to force a man who doesn’t have the grace to love you and lead you and wait on Jehovah.
Wives, if you’re married and the two of you aren’t working together toward your ministry as a couple, pray and seek Jehovah for guidance and direction. The two of you have a kingdom ministry. What is it? Maximize your purpose and maximize your love for each other.
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When God sends your husband, you’ll know. You won’t have to debate it, argue it, or explain it. What is understood by you and Holy Spirit can’t be explained to people operating by the flesh. Protect your union. Don’t let the outside world penetrate your bond. You know what God told you – and that’s enough. Love like God says for us to love. Feel. Love. Even when you don’t feel love. I decree and declare that God ordained love bonds will not be broken in the name of Yeshua. And if you’re still waiting, Trust. God.
Wives, how many of you know and believe in your spirit that your husband has/will have a powerful calling and assignment on his life? In order to be the wife of a husband in a high place or position, we need certain characteristics – submission and a quiet spirit to name a couple. Also, our main role is to “help” so we must begin to decree and declare confessions over His life now to protect his purpose in the kingdom as well as our own.
1. I decree and declare that my husband will be totally surrendered to Jehovah God and in relationship with Yeshua.
2. I decree and declare that my husband will be led by Holy Spirit in his decisions about himself, me, and our family.
3. I decree and declare that my husband has a spirit of excellence within him which causes him to be pre-eminent among other men. My husband distinguishes himself because of the God on the inside of him.
4. I decree and declare that no corruption or negligence can be found in my husband.
5. I decree and declare that my husband is trustworthy and will be elevated in position in the cultural mountain over which he has influence.
6. I decree and declare that I am equipped as a wife to have the mandate of partnering with a man who Jehovah places in a high position. I am equipped to handle his work load and the people he will have to come in contact with. I can handle the responsibility of having a safe haven for him when he comes home from superintending the kingdom all day. I am prepared to support the causes for which he fights. I am equipped to partner with him in kingdom work.
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