I pray that God teaches us how to truly be help mates. Yes. He created us to be that way. But we live in the world’s system and Satan has spent our whole lives using his imps to brainwash us in his methods. I decree and declare now that we will operate as wives according to God’s original plan. We know how to hold our husband down. We know how to lift him up. We know how to help him articulate his vision. We know how to give depth to his plans. We know how to organize and execute his goals. We know how to ask questions that will make him think things through without cussing, fussing, or nagging. We know how to create a sanctuary at home for him after he’s been through hell all day. We know how to lay hands on his head and pray over him until he believes he can do anything. We know how to make him feel like a king. We know how to propel him to another level. We know how to make his heart smile. How? Because Holy Spirit leads, guides, and teaches us what to say and do and we listen.
“Your husband’s sex drive is God’s gift to you.” Wives, sex is such a powerful tool and an even more powerful weapon. Jehovah never intended for us to use sex as a kingdom or spiritual weapon. The devil came in and corrupted its meaning and its use. Think about how the enemy uses sex in our marriages or how he uses us to use sex against our husbands. I know it must be extremely difficult to surrender your body and emotions to a man who has been insensitive, who refuses to take out the trash or help with the children, or who isn’t affectionate. But instead of rebelling; instead of withholding; and instead of withdrawing, you must learn how to engage in spiritual warfare. What are the confessions that you speak over him daily so that Jehovah can transform his life? How do you refuel and surrender to Jehovah so that He can fix what’s wrong in YOU? When do you go to the altar to pray for Jehovah to help you surrender to your husband sexually? When was the last time you fasted for your husband and marriage and sex life?
The devil will use us wives to withhold sex because he knows what a powerful tool it is in kingdom marriages. He will also use spirits of lust, adultery, masturbation, pornography and all other forms of sexual immorality to infiltrate our marriages with irreparable damage – if we let him. In kingdom, God ordained marriages and in God ordained sexual activities with your spouse, the sexual connection not only binds you to your husband and secures your oneness with him; not only does it feel amazing, but it is also a form of worship to Jehovah.
Think about all this power you have within you wives as you’ve been studying the Word of God with me; you’ve been praying; you’re about to do a 30-day fast. And do you think that when you connect with your husband sexually (which is also a connection spiritually) that your spirits aren’t impacting him? No. Sex won’t be the panacea for all your marital ills but the lack of sex is extremely frustrating to your husband and detrimental to your marriage. His sex drive has been tormenting you because other things aren’t going the way you want them to. Pray about this. Add this issue to your fasting prayer list. Your husband’s sex drive is a gift to you from Jehovah because in whole and healed marriages, sex can be the most powerful way to connect. When you have sex, use that as an opportunity to literally say aloud some of the confessions that Jehovah has given us. “Talking dirty” invites demons in your bedroom. And you wonder why you’re arguing or can’t communicate or can’t agree. What are you saying to each other and is it godly? Speaking powerful confessions over him while you are connected in the ultimate way invites the power of Holy Spirit to transform him and your marriage. His sex drive? Honey so many women are praying for what you have. You just have to pray and ask God how to manage the blessing with which you’ve been given.
He may not have the grace. You have a calling and an assignment on your life. Period. You were created for a purpose. Those relationships haven’t worked out because the man Jehovah has for you has to have the “grace” to be able to love you and lead you. He won’t bless you with someone who isn’t created to complement your calling to fulfill in the earth. There is a man who is favored and graced to carry you as Jehovah carries him. The heavier your calling, the heavier his grace will be. Be discerning. You know what God has called you to do. You know what God told you you need in your husband. Stop trying to force a man who doesn’t have the grace to love you and lead you and wait on Jehovah.
Wives, if you’re married and the two of you aren’t working together toward your ministry as a couple, pray and seek Jehovah for guidance and direction. The two of you have a kingdom ministry. What is it? Maximize your purpose and maximize your love for each other.
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When God sends your husband, you’ll know. You won’t have to debate it, argue it, or explain it. What is understood by you and Holy Spirit can’t be explained to people operating by the flesh. Protect your union. Don’t let the outside world penetrate your bond. You know what God told you – and that’s enough. Love like God says for us to love. Feel. Love. Even when you don’t feel love. I decree and declare that God ordained love bonds will not be broken in the name of Yeshua. And if you’re still waiting, Trust. God.
As much as he hurts you, keeps embarrassing you, and puts you in compromising positions, nothing you can do or say can change him until he surrenders himself to God. Pray over him. Pray without ceasing. Tell Jehovah what you want and need from him. Cover him in the blood of Yeshua. Rebuke spirits that are coming for him – sabotage, python (to suffocate, wear down, make heavy, torment, irritate), marine (from the water, spirits that seduce sexually), women who don’t really want him but because you have him they allow themselves to be used by the devil to irritate and torture you (sometimes men can be or pretend to be blind to the motives of worldly women); lustful; lust of the eyes, pride of life; spirit of pride and arrogance; greed (more than one woman, befriending multiple women, exes, or children’s moms) and any other spirits he may be dealing with from childhood. Bind substance and drug abuse and addiction. Bind sexual addictions. Speak affirmations over his life. Submit to him. But only God can break him all the way down if he doesn’t straighten up (ask Paul). Seek God for guidance and for peace. He will tell you what to do. I decree and declare God’s blessings over you right now. Be encouraged. With Yeshua (Jesus) all things are possible.
Wives, how many of you know and believe in your spirit that your husband has/will have a powerful calling and assignment on his life? In order to be the wife of a husband in a high place or position, we need certain characteristics – submission and a quiet spirit to name a couple. Also, our main role is to “help” so we must begin to decree and declare confessions over His life now to protect his purpose in the kingdom as well as our own.
1. I decree and declare that my husband will be totally surrendered to Jehovah God and in relationship with Yeshua.
2. I decree and declare that my husband will be led by Holy Spirit in his decisions about himself, me, and our family.
3. I decree and declare that my husband has a spirit of excellence within him which causes him to be pre-eminent among other men. My husband distinguishes himself because of the God on the inside of him.
4. I decree and declare that no corruption or negligence can be found in my husband.
5. I decree and declare that my husband is trustworthy and will be elevated in position in the cultural mountain over which he has influence.
6. I decree and declare that I am equipped as a wife to have the mandate of partnering with a man who Jehovah places in a high position. I am equipped to handle his work load and the people he will have to come in contact with. I can handle the responsibility of having a safe haven for him when he comes home from superintending the kingdom all day. I am prepared to support the causes for which he fights. I am equipped to partner with him in kingdom work.
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What are we willing to do to stand out in a crowd? To be relevant in a world infiltrated by idolatry? To be number one? To be the prettiest and the sexiest? We will go from showing a little cleavage to showing nipples through a see-through shirt to posing in the nude to posing pornographically in the nude because we can’t compete in a world infiltrated by lust, pornography and perversion. We will get progressively more lewd just to be seen because the next woman will always be willing to do more and show more.
Do we conform to the patterns of this world? Do we allow the world to define what’s fashionable and what’s “in” or what’s the style? Or do we rebel against everything the world prescribes?
You are beautiful with your neckline and shoulders showing. You are just as beautiful wearing a turtleneck. We can’t ignore that there is something going on within us when as a “believer” of Yeshua and a daughter of the King we don’t feel Holy Spirit tugging at our heart strings to cover up, to stop saying and doing extreme things to get likes, views, and followers, and to get out of his bed because he isn’t our husband.
You were created to stand out without all the extra. You have something in you that the women in the world don’t have. Listen to me beautiful, it doesn’t take all that for real. God alone sets you apart. His glory is on you and that’s enough. Our relevancy in the world is irrelevant in the kingdom. Rebel! Be different! Be holy! Because God says so!
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