I pray that God teaches us how to truly be help mates. Yes. He created us to be that way. But we live in the world’s system and Satan has spent our whole lives using his imps to brainwash us in his methods. I decree and declare now that we will operate as wives according to God’s original plan. We know how to hold our husband down. We know how to lift him up. We know how to help him articulate his vision. We know how to give depth to his plans. We know how to organize and execute his goals. We know how to ask questions that will make him think things through without cussing, fussing, or nagging. We know how to create a sanctuary at home for him after he’s been through hell all day. We know how to lay hands on his head and pray over him until he believes he can do anything. We know how to make him feel like a king. We know how to propel him to another level. We know how to make his heart smile. How? Because Holy Spirit leads, guides, and teaches us what to say and do and we listen.
Queens, it is the season for us to examine our fruit. Do we produce royal fruit? Can God trust us to wear the crown? Do we carry ourselves like a queen? Do we engage in royal conversations? Are we willing to stop participating in sexual sin? Masturbation? Pornography? Adultery? Fornication? Lust? Do we have self-control? Is there even a hit of greed? Welfare or income tax fraud? Are our private conversations with family or girlfriends pure? Do we engage in nasty conversations? Make nasty jokes? I thank God that we can repent and thank Jehovah for His grace! We can surrender our struggles to Him and let Him come in and begin to transform our lives now. Let’s begin to express thankfulness to Jehovah out of our mouths. Let’s bless and not curse out of our mouths. Let’s build up and not tear down. Let’s exemplify queen behavior. We have to be willing to die to our flesh and our own fleshly desires. God has greater works He wants to do in, for and through us but we have to let Him get our hearts right. You are a queen. You’re worthy of the crown. You’re worth far more than rubies. You just have to carry yourself like you know this.
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Your time has come. God is about to make you forget all the labor, grief, and birth pains you’ve had to go through. When you see the manifestation of the blessings; when you see the possibilities in what He is birthing in you; when your visions and dreams are manifested in this season; when you are no longer the tail but the head, no longer beneath but above; when you pull down every spiritual blessing that He has for you in heavenly places, you won’t remember the past pain and the present and future warfare will be ineffective and impenetrable to you. Your time has come – but only if you believe it has. Only if you move in the Kairos of God. Only if you relinquish the past and get up off your bed of affliction. Only if you shed the mourning clothes of last season and walk in your kingdom purpose. Some of us are sitting by the window waiting for Yeshua to return. He says get up and work and move toward your destiny. Your time has come now!
John 16:21-22 (NIV) 21 A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. 22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.
There is no competition or vying for position in the kingdom. Each queen has her own throne. Each queen has her own metron. Each queen has territory to conquer. I can share my ideas with you and you with me and we can copy each other if Holy Spirit so leads. And guess what? Both of us will still reign in her own right. There is a need for a plethora of ministries, businesses, schools and more. Each of us has a sphere of influence. Your people may not be my people. There are millions of unchurched people who need what we have. The enemy already tears us down without us doing it to each other. It’s his mission to wreak havoc in our lives specifically. There will always be enmity between queens and Satan. Stay in position. And when you get in position. Bring another queen up and another and another. And if she gets there before you do, support her until your due season.
One of the things that has caused us to be stuck in a spiritual time capsule, unable to unlock the blessings of Jehovah is the company we keep. We are stuck in a season of drought, no productivity and lack because we refuse to walk away from people. And God has revealed to us that the people around us are not supposed to be connected to us but we refuse to cut ties.
Ungodly counsel is advice from those who appear to speak truth but have a spirit of divination and wickedness. It obviously isn’t always obvious. You won’t listen to your spirit. And you’re stuck. Being in the path of or on the same course or journey with sinners will keep you in a season beyond your time. Remaining, tarrying, abiding and dwelling in a situation with those who boast, scorn, mock and act foolishly will keep you from a season of blessings.
Blessed is the man who cuts ties with these people. The opposite is true. A change in seasons will happen when a change in connections happens.
Psalms 1:1-6 KJV “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.”
Ephesians 6:12 (KJV) “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” There is an invisible battle in the spiritual realm that we can’t see. We just need to ask God for revelation so that we can “see” what’s happening in the spiritual realm.
The fight for your marriage is REAL! Do you think it’s unintentional that there are so many divorces and marital issues? The fight for your sanity and not to lose your mind is REAL! Do you think it’s just “YOU” causing you to be up, down, in, out, and on a rollercoaster? The fight for your finances is REAL! Do you think that the spirit of poverty in our family lineages won’t have to be broken and cut off and demolished with violent spiritual force? It’s real. Satan has a strategic army. We have to ask God to help us to use our weapons to fight the rulers of the darkness spiritually. We can’t win a spiritual war with flesh. God open our hearts, minds, and EYES to receive what you’re showing us in Jesus’s name. The devil is after something all right – to ultimately destroy us. But he has no power over our power through Yeshua.
“Your husband’s sex drive is God’s gift to you.” Wives, sex is such a powerful tool and an even more powerful weapon. Jehovah never intended for us to use sex as a kingdom or spiritual weapon. The devil came in and corrupted its meaning and its use. Think about how the enemy uses sex in our marriages or how he uses us to use sex against our husbands. I know it must be extremely difficult to surrender your body and emotions to a man who has been insensitive, who refuses to take out the trash or help with the children, or who isn’t affectionate. But instead of rebelling; instead of withholding; and instead of withdrawing, you must learn how to engage in spiritual warfare. What are the confessions that you speak over him daily so that Jehovah can transform his life? How do you refuel and surrender to Jehovah so that He can fix what’s wrong in YOU? When do you go to the altar to pray for Jehovah to help you surrender to your husband sexually? When was the last time you fasted for your husband and marriage and sex life?
The devil will use us wives to withhold sex because he knows what a powerful tool it is in kingdom marriages. He will also use spirits of lust, adultery, masturbation, pornography and all other forms of sexual immorality to infiltrate our marriages with irreparable damage – if we let him. In kingdom, God ordained marriages and in God ordained sexual activities with your spouse, the sexual connection not only binds you to your husband and secures your oneness with him; not only does it feel amazing, but it is also a form of worship to Jehovah.
Think about all this power you have within you wives as you’ve been studying the Word of God with me; you’ve been praying; you’re about to do a 30-day fast. And do you think that when you connect with your husband sexually (which is also a connection spiritually) that your spirits aren’t impacting him? No. Sex won’t be the panacea for all your marital ills but the lack of sex is extremely frustrating to your husband and detrimental to your marriage. His sex drive has been tormenting you because other things aren’t going the way you want them to. Pray about this. Add this issue to your fasting prayer list. Your husband’s sex drive is a gift to you from Jehovah because in whole and healed marriages, sex can be the most powerful way to connect. When you have sex, use that as an opportunity to literally say aloud some of the confessions that Jehovah has given us. “Talking dirty” invites demons in your bedroom. And you wonder why you’re arguing or can’t communicate or can’t agree. What are you saying to each other and is it godly? Speaking powerful confessions over him while you are connected in the ultimate way invites the power of Holy Spirit to transform him and your marriage. His sex drive? Honey so many women are praying for what you have. You just have to pray and ask God how to manage the blessing with which you’ve been given.