The enemy wants to literally kill you. You can feel it when he uses other women to come for you to annihilate you with their words or in their attempts to take your husband. We can feel it in retrospect when we think about the abusive relationships we survived. We can feel it in every attack against our finances, living from check to check or no check at all. In spite of every attack, the devil is powerless. But you have to fight mighty woman of God. You are a warrior. Push. Keep going. Keep pressing. Do. Not. Give. Up. Fight.
1 Peter 3:6 “…as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.”
This passage of scripture has always captured my spirit. What in the world could cause a wife to be afraid with “terror?” I have studied this word and can’t find any other references in the Bible of its use. Wow! We are considered Sarah’s daughters, with the capacity to call our husbands ‘lord’ if we do good and are not afraid with any terror. We look at “do good” quite often, especially since it’s referenced in Proverbs 31 also. But for this post, let’s explore terror. It’s such a strong word. Terror is extreme fear. What fears do we have that would prevent us from serving our husbands?
I bind the fear of him leaving.
I bind the fear of his death.
I bind the fear of him cheating.
I bind the fear of him not loving me.
I bind the fear of him not being a good steward.
I bind the fear of him not having wisdom.
I bind the fear of me not making him happy.
I bind the fear of other women taking him.
I bind the fear of not being able to fulfill my personal assignment.
Are there anything other things that cause you to fear? When you acknowledge it, bind it immediately.
The devil knows if he can cause us to fear that we won’t be willing to be good to or serve our husbands because something – sometimes subconsciously – will hold us back. I decree and declare that we are free today. We are free from terror in the name of Yeshua (Jesus). We are free to be good to and serve our husbands.
Holy Spirit said, “Not in this season!” It may be time to go through the process of ridding your spirit of some foolishness again. Have you allowed any and everyone to speak into you? Have you held conversations with some spirits that have literally made your chest heavy? Do you feel bloated or a spirit of heaviness? Did you start worrying about things you were once confidence in? Do you pay attention to the signs your spirit is giving you? You can’t keep going like this. Theenemy wants to clog you up and weigh you down with spirits and spiritual attacks. How do you combat this? Change your spiritual diet. You absolutely can’t keep allowing certain spirits in your life. You need to cut it. You may have to take a period of time during which you refrain from certain conversations, people, and things. This season is too critical for you to continue to allow these toxins to build up in your life. It’s time for a spiritual detox!
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What sets you apart from every other woman in the earth realm? What makes you so worthy? What makes you so special? Why are you necessary in the kingdom and in your home? I will tell you. You have the ability to discern which situations require you to intercede “quickly.”
1 Samuel 25:117-18 “Now therefore, know and consider what you will do, for harm is determined against our master and against all his household. For he is such a scoundrel that one cannot speak to him.’ Then Abigail made haste and took two hundred loaves of bread, two skins of wine, five sheep already dressed, five seahs of roasted grain, one hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred cakes of figs, and loaded them on donkeys.”
You know how to distinguish between the need for the model prayer versus the need for you to lay before Jehovah, cry out, confess His Word back to Him, and wait for Him to speak. You, like Abigail know when to make haste and load that donkey up with goods! Woman of God, there is nothing like having a spirit of discernment and the gift of spiritual wisdom.
Abigail was married to a man whose name meant “fool.” He did something so foolish that it was going to impact her and her household and could ultimately result in their deaths. She didn’t consult with her husband. She didn’t declare a fast. She didn’t go in the prayer closet. The Word says that Abigail made haste and went to make an offering in order to keep the peace for her household. Her actions not only saved her household (except “fool” – Please read the entire chapter again! It is empowering!) but also it saved the king from making an irrational decision.
Beautiful woman of God, are you prepared to make decisions in the spirit that will save your earthly king? Are you praying and fasting and studying and listening and hearing from Jehovah NOW so that when the time arises you can pray quickly as you load up that donkey with goods. You will be able to act quickly because you will be assured that you’re hearing from Holy Spirit in your decisions. See you will have already learned to recognize the difference between His voice and your flesh. Have you ever had to keep your family, your king from devastation? In what spirit did you intercede? Was it in lowliness and humility and meekness and with a quiet spirit? Or did you “drag him” because he was about to mess up not only your household but also in the kingdom? Listen to me you powerhouse you, you have so many gifts on the inside of you. You can change the trajectory of your entire marriage or your entire single season. You, my love, are worth far more than rubies.
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Instructions for Christian Households
Ephesians 5:21-24 “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.”
“I’m a grown woman! I do what I want to do. I’m independent. I’m a boss. I make my own money. I make it happen for me and mines (for emphasis).” Have you made any of these comments? If so, it’s ok. We can repent now. Jehovah is transforming our entire lives right now in this moment. But we must have a reverent fear of Yeshua that keeps us from foolishness. “I can’t say that. I can’t do that. I can’t be that way. Yeshua sees me and knows my heart.” That’s where Jehovah wants us. See in order to submit to our husbands in “EVERYTHING” we have to be totally submitted to Yeshua. What else can humble us enough to submit to a mere mortal, a man?
I’ve been ministering to married couples for years and this is a huge obstacle to innumerable wives. The main issue is that first we marry men Jehovah never told us to marry! That’s why we’re waiting single wives. But the next issue wives have is that we’ve never learned “how” to submit. The world has taught “all the women who’re independent to throw our hands up at them.” The world has taught us who runs the world -girls. The world has taught us that our private parts act as kryptonite. Really? If that were true every woman would have a husband under her spell! Foolishness. This is it single wives, our season of submission; our season to undo everything the world has done to our spirit. This is our season to become foolish so we can become wise.
What are you willing to give up in your flesh in order to submit to Yeshua in your spirit? Is your spirit quiet now? Do you respect authority now? Do you show honor now? Let’s allow Jehovah to teach us how to submit. The husband is the head of his wife. We have to be submitted to Jehovah to choose the “head” for us. I’m not doing this on my own again. I refuse. I’m waiting on Jehovah. Grown women submit to and revere Yeshua.
Single wives, make sure you study Ephesians Chapter 5 for a few more days. Read the entire chapter once a day. We’re breaking it down in the group. Feel free to use your own study methods to really dissect it and get it in your spirit.
Kings, have you been waiting on the blessings of God? Have you been feeling like there has to be more than this in the kingdom for you before Yeshua (Jesus Christ) comes back? God are you willing to obey his commands? Yeshua says if you love Him then obey His commands. Yeshua says that He rewards those who believe He exists and who diligently seek Him. God wants to surely bless you. God wants to bless your children. God wants to enable you and your children to take possession of the cities, land, and territories that our enemies took from us. God wants to use you to prepare the kingdom for the return of Yeshua. Are you a man who obeys Jehovah? Are you a man who listens to the instructions from Holy Spirit? Are you a man who is willing to lay down his own life for the kingdom of God? If you are saying, “I am that man” right now, I’m decreeing and declaring the blessings of God over your life right now. Your health is blessed. Your finances are blessed. You’re blessed in your going out and in your coming in. Your home is blessed. Your bank account is blessed. Your career is blessed. Your ministry is blessed. Your business is blessed. Every thing you set your hands to do that is aligned with the will of God for your life is blessed in the name of Yeshua.
Kings, the enemy has you so caught up and distracted with the things in a world that is passing away that you have to check your motives today. Ask yourselves, “Why are we doing what we do? Is Yeshua and heaven our main focus? Do the things we do on a day to day basis align with the main focus? Are we storing up treasures on earth or giving to the needy?” Anything that you’ve made bigger than God has to be burned up on the altar now. Anything that you’ve allowed to cause you to fall into sin has to be burned up on the altar right now. God has finally gotten you the house in the suburbs. If He asks you to leave it, burn it on the altar. God has finally given you stability in your position on the job. If He asks you to leave it and step out on faith in business and ministry, burn it on the altar. You finally have the woman that you just knew would be your wife but God confirmed that the relationship is dead. Burn it on the altar. What if he told you to take everything you own and give it to the poor? You have to be willing to lay it on the altar on top of the wood and hold the match to it. If God doesn’t provide the ram, burn it on the altar.