God created marriage. It’s special to Him and the enemy comes against it with a vengeance. The devil wants to destroy the entity of marriage because marriage (and the family) perpetuates the kingdom of God. That’s why we have to be strategic in our warfare for our marriages. That’s why we have to recognize the spirits on us that are being used against marriages (i.e., adultery, lust, covetousness, greed, jealousy, envy, etc.). We have to keep the entity of marriage sacred. We do not share our marital issues with any and everyone. We don’t publicize our marital conflicts. The enemy wants to use our conflicts to divide and conquer marriages. What are you saying out of your own mouth that gives the devil a foothold?
Ephesians 6:12 AMP For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood [contending only with physical opponents], but against the despotisms, against the powers, against [the master spirits who are] the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spirit forces of wickedness in the heavenly (supernatural) sphere.
Evil spirits dwell in the air or heavenly realm or atmosphere. And although Satan isn’t omnipresent and can’t be everywhere at the same time, his army of demons are strategically and geographically placed. Don’t release issues about your marriage that God hasn’t told you to put in the atmosphere.
Everyone can’t speak into our marriages. Psalm 1 says blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly. We don’t need to post or say everything for the enemy to see or for him to use people who aren’t equally yoked with us to speak into our situations. Be led by the Holy Spirit about your marriage. Dr.J.